As the year winds down and Christmas lights glow a little softer, I keep coming back to the same thought: life really is one long open road — sometimes measured in seasons instead of miles — and this season is where we finally slow down enough to notice the stories we’ve been collecting along the way.
This week, the moments feel quieter but fuller. My kids playing in the living room, the sound of my four-year-old’s giggles colliding with his baby brother’s laughs — the kind of laughter that erupts out of nowhere and fills the whole house. My husband was home for a few precious days — no rush, no alarms, just time we don’t usually get. Nothing extraordinary. Everything meaningful.
It’s the kind of pause Christmas invites if we let it.
The Stories This Year Gave Me
This year didn’t move in a straight line. It rarely does.
Motherhood has looked like exhaustion layered with gratitude — tired in my bones, yes, but quietly proud in ways I don’t always say out loud. Watching my kids grow into themselves, with each other. These days, the road looks less like somewhere to go and more like moments I don’t want to miss. Realizing how fast these seasons overlap and how easily they slip past if I’m not paying attention.
Creatively, this year felt like experimenting. Trying things without knowing the outcome. Letting curiosity lead instead of certainty. Some ideas landed, others didn’t — but all of them taught me something about myself and what I want to carry forward.
And then there were the detours.
There were a few big ones this year.
Giving birth to my fourth (and last) child.
My seventeen-year-old — now eighteen — graduated from high school and then moved out.
Starting this blog.
Having surgery to finally remove an ovary that had been causing constant pain.
That’s the thing about life: we don’t always recognize the deviations — or their weight — until we’re already past them.
Stories Are the Gifts That Last
It’s easy to focus on what’s under the tree — but the stories — the stories — are the true gift as we gather our family this time of year.
The sound of laughter you wish you could bottle. The conversations that linger after the dishes are done. The seasons that stretch you and soften you at the same time. These are the things that connect us — to ourselves, to each other, to the road we’ve been walking all along, to the quiet road unfolding right where we are.
When we tell our stories — even quietly, even just to ourselves — we give meaning to the miles.
A Creative Pause to Remember
If you’re craving something simple this week, try this: write down one holiday story you don’t want to forget.
It doesn’t need to be polished. A few sentences in a journal. A note in your phone. A voice memo whispered while the house is finally still. Capture it as it is — imperfect, tender, real.
Those small stories are the ones that guide us forward.
Carrying the Light Ahead
The year ahead will bring new twists and turns — it always does. But the stories we’ve gathered this year will light the way, like a porch light left on, warm and steady, reminding us where we’ve been and where we’re welcome to return.
As I look toward 2026, the word I’m carrying with me is courage. Courage to step into a new health journey in the middle of kids, life, and everything else. Courage to keep experimenting. Courage to keep showing up, even when the road feels uncertain.
What story will you carry into 2026?
From my road to yours, happy wandering.
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